It’s a 30′s thang, some of yall might not understand. But I just turned 30 and I understand completely. I have never had a so called boyfriend for longer than 6 months. I used to think that something was wrong with me, but after reading this I think I just didn’t allow myself to be trapped in unloving, unhealthy, reonhilastips that weren’t going anywhere and man am I glad. I am really enjoying life at 30, and I look forward to what the future holds. Sounds to me like you are too, Vivrant!